Tuesday, April 08, 2008

No Laughing Matter

Yesterday, Tracy and I had a front seat in the theater of modern education and how the schools react to certain events. Apologies to Bob Uecker, but the "Front Row" is not always the best seat in the house. What I am rambling on about? The subject of our story today is Kellie and her ex-boyfriend. I am not sure what my legal standing is here, so I won't use any names.

About a month ago, Kellie broke up with her boyfriend and it seems that he did not take it too well. He left threatening text messages and posted several MySpace messages that made similar threats of violence. Just as we were wondering if these were the empty threats of a pissed of 15 year old kid, he posted a message online that he was going to "shoot" her. Since the young man in question is an avid hunter, this particular threat received the lion's share of our attention.

Realizing that enough is enough, Tracy printed several of these missives and took them to school. Once there, she showed them to the school police office for his opinion. This may be news to the elders among us, but in Northern Virginia, each middle and high school has a county police officer who works out of the school. They each have an office and it is this office that Tracy went to. The plan was to ask him for his opinion, but once he saw the threats, the course of events was set. Virginia is home to to Virginia Tech and Cho Seung-Hui so we are more than a little sensitive to this kind of stuff and there are action plans that must kick into gear.

In this case, the student was brought into the police officer's office and he readily admitted to authorship of the messages. Furthermore, his cell phone was confiscated and several more threatening messages were found in the outbox. Meanwhile, just to be absolutely sure, Kellie was removed from school grounds on Tracy's order.

We got a call later that day informing us what had happened. The kid received an automatic 10-day suspension and cannot return to school until he has passed a psychiatric evaluation. If he does return, he has been labeled a "high-risk" security problem and can searched on school property at any time for any reason. He was released into the custody of his father, who called Tracy this evening. What could have been a very contentious phone call was nothing of the sort. He was contrite and simply apologized for what happened.

Today, we found out that the kid posted a message to all his pals on MySpace that said goodbye and that he would not be returning. I am not sure what this means, but we think that it means he was expelled from the county school system.

It turns out that raising a teenager in today's world is exactly what it used to be. Today's teens are subject to a world that we cannot comprehend and because of the recent spate of school shooting, the knee-jerk reactions are the standard response.

Bottom line is that Kellie is safe and sound. There appear to be no repercussions at all. In order to stifle any attempt by the kid's friends to harass her, they were all brought in and told in terms that they could not fail to understand that they were being watched. This appears to be worked very well.

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